
We went off to Lena again today (why yes, as a matter of fact, we were just there on Monday.) All in all it was a lovely trip. First of all, it was an absolutely gorgeous day for a road trip. Shortly after we took off we came across this group (bunch? flock?) of sandhill cranes. There were 18 of them, and when they are gathering like that, you can be sure they are thinking about migrating. It seems early if you ask me, which has me a little concerned about the arrival and severity of our winter.

The main reason we went down was to go with my dad to the Fall Festival parade (I love Lena - their idea of when fall arrives coincides with mine!) The parade was fun and sweet, as only small town parades can be. If you've never been to one, then you need to know that there are nearly as many people in the parade as there are watching it. Cub Scouts, Brownies, Boy and Girl Scouts, 4Hers, church floats, marching bands from every school in the county (and some of the smallest school-sponsored bands I've ever seen), fire equipment from every town in the county (if there had been a fire anywhere within a 25 mile radius, it would have been bad news), queens, princesses and junior misses, politicians (current and hopeful), Shriners in little cars, all types of restored tractors (you had your green ones, your red ones and your orange ones), many models of restored cars, and last but not least, horses. I'm forgetting some others, I'm sure, but you get the idea. Nearly everyone was throwing candy or handing out something. I can now state that I am officially old. Here's why: one of the marching bands played "Freebird". Furthermore, marching bands really don't march anymore. They kind of slouch along, not even bothering to be in step with each other. When the parade was over they probably slouched home to write about it on Facebook.
Afterwards dad treated us to the pork barbecue at the park. When we finished eating we perused the restored cars and tractors. Believe me when I say that I was done with this activity way before the guys were.
In spite of enjoying it all (except the prolonged tractor admiration), I also felt sad. This was the kind of thing that my mom thoroughly enjoyed and it was strange to be there without her. The last time I went to the Fall Festival, my mom was alive. I was probably all big-city snobby about being there, I'm embarrassed to admit, and of course didn't enjoy it as much as I could have, especially if I had known it would be the last time I'd be able to do that with her.
And there's something about going to a place where you grew up, which somehow should be frozen in time, and finding that of course it isn't, to make you feel the passing of time. My grade school is now an apartment building. The house I grew up in has new windows and siding, and I can remember when my dad gave it new windows and siding. How can it need new ones? All the backyards we used to play in are owned by different people.
I could go on and on, but this is already quite long. Anyway - overall, a really good day, with some bittersweet moments. And we got free candy :)